I know I'm supposed to be all manic and upset.
(according to the Robsessed Mommies who follow
my every word...hahaha)
I'm supposed to be in some sort of meltdown
and crying and angry.
Not even close.
My first reaction when I saw this pic?
It was ambivalence.
I've been talking to friends for months
about wanting Rob and/or Kristen
to make a fucking MOVE.
This isn't the move I would have wanted
You don't always get what you want.
(Especially in this fandom)
And it's not about what I want anyway...
Living in R/K limbo
isn't a fun place to be... you know?
I'll admit it.
I fucking care about Rob and Kristen.
But after 2012 knocked the air out of me...
there was no way in fucking hell
I was ever going back there again.
I would like to think I learn from my mistakes.
And I have.
At least the mistake of being overly invested
in a relationship of two celebrities
that in all honesty...
doesn't impact my life.
I took a big step back in 2012.
More of a leap back...
I blogged less.
I tweeted less.
I spent less time online.
I made a point of not caring...
Keeping things at arms length.
Watching from a distance.
And for the most part...
That's not to say I wasn't still here
Adoring Rob and Kristen
being interested in their lives
following their careers...
(I am a FAN after all)
Whereas before I got too close to the flame
and got burned...
This time I barely felt the heat.
Now I realize that not everyone is in the same place.
A lot of people are very sad.
Some are very glad.
You are all entitled to whatever it is you feel.
So feel it.
This too shall pass.
1. I think we all realized that things had changed.
We hadn't seen Rob and Kristen
together in quite some time.
Is it THAT much a surprise that they have moved forward?
You can't hate on Rob for living his life.
And you most definitely shouldn't be hating
this Twigs person.
She hasn't done anything wrong.
You don't have to like anyone
that's all well and good
But to spew bitter vile hatred
at someone for not behaving the way
you want them to behave?
Shame on you.
2. FKA Twigs
Like I said ...
I never heard of her before.
I actually find myself physically
shrugging my shoulders
when I read about her.
That's how much I care.
(At least I'm honest about it)
going on Rob's friends Instagrams
and her public accounts
to call her names?
That is beyond disgusting.
And so fucking embarrassing.
And to all you self righteous Robsessed lunatics
pointing fingers about the hate
when YOU have done exactly the same thing
to Kristen for YEARS.
Who do you think you're kidding?
Hate is fucking hate.
Kristen never deserved any of it...
Either does Twigs
or anyone else for that matter.
It's all beyond sane rational behavior.
Here's an idea for everyone...
STAY THE FUCK OFF
THESE PEOPLE'S SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS!
Stop thinking that they care what you have to say.
Stop insulting and harassing
and stalking these people
just because you feel entitled to barge into their lives.
And that goes for the "I'm sorry you have to see this" bullshit.
They aren't your friends... they don't care.
You think you know what they are trying to say.
You take simple words
you know NOTHING about
and twist it to fit some weird agenda.
"OH MY GOD DID YOU SEE WHAT
--insert Rob/Kristen friend here-- SAID???
--insert Rob/Kristen friend here-- SAID???
LOOK AT THE PICTURE
OH MY GOD!"
OH MY GOD!"
In all reality?
(something I don't think some of these people
are in touch with)
Get the FUCK off their dicks.
I hope you all realize that Kristen
knows what is going on.
She is IN THE LOOP... you know?
Don't feel sorry for her.
She's not cowering in some corner
rocking back and forth crying.
She's been busy working
and looks to be
enjoying her down time doing
all sorts of fun things.
You have all seen her these past months...
She has looked STUNNING
She's where she wants to be.
Just like Rob is where he wants to be.
I would prefer Rob and Kristen
Rob and Kristen.
And you know what?
I will always have HOPE
that these 2 people
who have shared so much
who have bonded and
have such a deep connection
find their way back
And even though they are on different paths
at the moment...
There is nothing to say
that those paths
won't intersect somewhere down the road...
I'm still on this ship.
Where else am I going to go?
4. Have to wonder...
When certain people will finally admit
that they have been lying to this fandom
for well over a year.
Granted... most saw right through the bullshit
(and got hated on for not agreeing with them)
But now you all know...
There is no CUZ
or super secret EXPERTS
that Rob and Kristen are married
with a child.
Rob is very clearly in some sort of relationship with Twigs.
While we don't know how serious it is...
We know Rob is spending time with her.
Give it up.
The pictures are real...
There is no photoshopping of ears or noses...
You look at blurry as fuck pics
taken from a football field away
of Kristen's eye
and determine that its her
You clearly see Rob and Twigs
holding hands and in a car
and you have conspiracy theories?
The fat lady has done sung.
Living is easy with eyes closed
Misunderstanding all you see
It's getting hard to be someone but it all works out
It doesn't matter much to me
Let me take you down, cos I'm going to
Nothing is real and nothing to get hung about
Strawberry Fields forever
5. Rob and Kristen
both have a lot of movies coming out...
So we should be getting more promo
All the good stuff.
ROVER is out on DVD today!!
If it hurts too much to look back...
You never know what's around the next corner.
Love is Long.
This post is brought to you by...
I adore you Thomas.
Until next time.
Bye for now